


A candid, science-based, no-BS guide by Dr. Michael Stokes—Certified Sex Therapist & Founder of Mister Health.

You learned the basics from porn, locker room talk, or a high school health class that told you more about diseases than desire.
So when sex gets complicated—when you lose your erection, can’t finish, feel disconnected, or start wondering if your fantasies are “normal”—you’re left with shame and zero answers.
It’s the truth about men’s sexual health—told with empathy, humor, and real-world experience by a therapist who’s spent over a decade helping men get out of their heads and back into their bodies.
and how to stop turning it into a performance test
and why they’re not weird
and how to stop turning it into a performance test
without it being awkward
and how to navigate each of them
for connection, not just climax
Dr. Mike takes on everything men secretly Google but rarely talk about—from erections and kinks to porn use, same-sex attraction, and what to do when sex feels like work instead of play.




If you’ve ever thought, “Am I normal?” — this book will show you that you are.
And if you’ve ever thought, “I want more out of my sex life,” — this book will show you how.
Dr. Mike blends clinical research with real stories from men like you, breaking down taboos and outdated ideas with warmth and wit.
He introduces frameworks like the MISTER Method and the Autonomous Sexuality Model, giving you tools to:
It’s sex therapy, wisdom, and mentorship
Founder of MisterHealth.com — the leading men’s sexual health and wellness platform.
Known to his clients as Dr. Mike, he’s helped hundreds of men move from anxiety, shame, and confusion into confidence, clarity, and connection.
With a direct, compassionate, and sex-positive approach, he’s changing the way men talk about sex—and helping them reclaim the pleasure they deserve.







This isn’t a fantasy. It’s what happens when you stop treating sex like a performance and start treating it like a practice.
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If you’re ready to stop worrying, start enjoying, and finally understand how your sexuality actually works — this is your guide.

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